Right, I’m 29, and Ive been dating a woman, same age, I met online on a dating site. To give you a brief background she was engaged to be married to an Australian guy(16 years her senior!). They split up just over a year ago as he called the wedding off and she flew back to Scotland. She’s been out with guys since then.
Anyway, things have been going great, and if anything, she’s been doing the chasing, e.g. she said she didn’t want us to see other people, she holds my hand, we’ve kissed, etc. Then the last time we saw each other we ended up going further and we had sex. Well I thought everything was fine. However, after not receiving calls/texts I had a strange feeling something was up. Well we just spoke on the phone tonight and she’s basically said that she’s realised that she doesnt think she is over the Australian guy(Mark). However, she went out for 5-6 months with a guy since she split up with him! And after 6 weeks she splits with me. She also says she really fancies me.
She genuinely wants to keep seeing me and I’ve agreed to see her 2moro night, going to the cinema, bite to eat, probably a couple of glasses of wine at her place.When we spoke a few hours ago on the phone she said that the funny thing is she REALLY likes me. She said she thinks Im great and shes told me things she hasnt told a lot of other people.Plus the fact she said she really fancies me so it’s not as if she doesnt see me in THAT way, like I feared.AND she wants to see me 2moro night. Its doing my head in.Is it some sort of test.Is she just wanting drama?I would love your opinions girls….it just seems that things were fine before the sex.
I should have mentioned that she said she just wants to be friends, but in the same breath she said she really fancies me???
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